Saturday, 18 August 2007

Friend or Foe ?

Do you have friends that calls only when they want something from you ? Or having friends that uses "personal favour" to get you to do something for them even though they know very well its gonna get you into trouble someday or somehow ?

Above all mentioned, you may still consider them as friends, but when you needed the slightest of all help such as a friendly advice needed through the phone is immediately brushed aside or simply not contactable for weeks to months and you get their SMS months later asking whether you wanna have "kopi" ?

Whatever it is, if you do have "friends" like this, it's best to delete their number off from your directory and brain memory. It's not worth keeping as the only time they'll call you is to ask for "personal favour". I'd rather keep name cards of business acquaintances where any trade or deal, business or personal, can be fairly dealt with.

For the more sinister ones that'll tell you all kinds of sweet nothings just to satisfy their aims or goals and hide the nasty consequences from you, I have something to say to people like this, F**K YOU ! You even have the cheek to call me up and teach me how to live my life ? Yeah, F**K YOU again. Get lost !

For friends that even bother to answer my phone call, I am very appreciative of you, no matter how insignificant you feel about those short little advice, to me, at least you bother. Thanks a million !

For those f**kers who only know how to satisfy their life, go get your girlfriend, wife, brothers, sisters or relatives to achieve your shitty desires. I think they deserve to help you more than I do. Thanks a million too !

2 comments:

Cath Delaney said...

I agree so much with this post. It happened to me very recently with a 'friend' of mine. I ended up cutting her and the world she inhabited out of my life. Completely. Forever. I'm not sorry.

L&E Trading and Services said...

I guess the problem with "friends" are that the longer you are acquainted with them, the more likelihood of abuse of the relationship. I did have quite a number of request in the past and the usual "I've known you for so long" phrase is said to me which makes me feel so obligated, but not anymore. Thanks for leaving a comment in my blog, nim. I appreciate that. Hope to see you around more often.